Monday, 14 December 2009

37 observations on 37 observations.

Found this on the internet, decided to comment on them all in regards to myself, decided it'd make a decent enough post. Stuck at home anyway, so here we go!

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
Yeah, this is definitely true from what I've noticed in myself. Quite a few really depressive and hurtful text files around from writing in a hurt state.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
I don't flirt with people, so I really can't comment on that, but I definitely do the second part, so... half marks?

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
Yeah, this is true. Smiles are awesome ^_^

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
I... really don't understand this one... I mean, I'm here, and the people that notice me are 100 miles away. So, yeah.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
I don't mind people talking about that kind of thing... I really really like listening to people, although sometimes I do feel a little defensive when I don't have the qualities of a person referred to. And I'm not sure what a "method" is in this instance, although it sounds vaguely Hitch-ish.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
I don't mind. Gotta have friends, right? And if all the friends were girls then that's just kinda limited.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
I dunno about this one really either. Never been in that position to know. Wow writing that made my expression darken a little. I do often get self doubt though, so... maybe?

8. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
Probably. There's not many people who know how I think and feel, and I think the internet is a great disinhibitor for that kind of thing. No-one else really sees much of me.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
Yeah, yeah this is completely the case for me. Paranoia paranoia paranoia! ^_~

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.
Nu. Not in my case. Nu nyet no ku.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.
Nooooooooooooot really, except with people I trust. Although I do trust fairly easily.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
I like the advice too. Although maybe that's because most people I share my problems with are so far away, and a reply is like confirmation that they've read it, and that you're not being a bother.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
I don't really tease anyone. So... no.

14. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
This one seems badly written. Maybe they're more vocal in a relationship or something, but it just seems kinda weird the way it's put.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.
I don't use hot OR cute and I think I've only used beautiful once? Mind you, most of my language is very subdued because I'm not very forward with how I feel.

16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.
I don't care about asses or boobs, and personality is key. So, half marks again?

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
No.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
Yes. yes. A thousand times yes. I am WAY to obsessive about small near-meaningless things people do.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
Sometimes. Other times my attention span is just like "Whee!" and never comes back.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
No, it's really obvious when I'm not in a good state, because I used to fake it and ended up hurting people. So I don't do it any more.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
Dunno... never said it, but I probably could without questioning myself about the truth of it.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
Yeah, I've done this one before. Almost hurt someone a lot.

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.
I'll talk seriously any time, but then again there's usually something on my mind.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
No, because the people who disagree really are beautiful and I really want them to believe me. Positive reinforcement seems like an apt term.

25.When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.
Maybe. Sometimes am just absent minded and not paying attention to where I'm looking. Although I am quite obsessive about eye contact, such as I can't have it with strangers.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
I'm pretty sure this one was pretty much said further up, but it's still true.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
Intimidated, yeah, give up, not so much. Am stubborn like that it seems.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
Not so much. I think about a lot, but not so much talking.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
Only as MAD confusing and strange, etc, etc as everyone else. I don't understand people.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.
Maybe. Only if they weren't hurt by the invasion of privacy.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
I'm not stubborn about this, actually. I'll ask for help if I need it, although apologize a lot and beat myself up after.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.
This doesn't really go into a personal basis, but is DEFINITELY true,

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.
...I wouldn't know. I don't think I've been privvy to such a conversation to know.

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually.
Once again, don't know. Very subdued and quiet/polite person here.

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.
Don't think so. Probably would feel nice though.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.
Yeah, this is pretty true. Am a complete bitch for neckrubs.

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
Yes and no, because I would do that for any of my friends.

An interesting list, I think. Lotsa stating of the obvious, pretty much equating to "guys are human too y'know?" but still interesting.

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